l am 24 and just had sex for the first time ever. My hymen keeps breaking a little more every time we try to have sex, but it is so painful and really ruins the moment. l wanna break it all at the same time so l can actually keep the penis inside me instead of it keep falling out. How much longer do l have to wait? This is really frustrating because l wanna be able to have sex like normal people.

It definately depends on the person.. be sure you are relaxed and comfortable.. and use lots of lube:) good luck, and have fun!

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Well there is a really fast way to do this,go to the doc and tell him/her that you want your hymen to be removed or what is left of it anyway and you're ready :D

You just have to suffer throughout the first initial shock of pain and let your man go all the way inside you with one thrust. Then you can be like everyone else.

Sometimes they can just get stubborn, it sounds like he might. not be long enough to get a good break. But l dont know. Here are some pointers.

He can lay down and you position yourself on top, and ease or sink yourself down to see if you can break it. This is the best position because you can control it and feel when it is breaking.

Also using a sexual toy (dildo, vibrator) yourself to break it could work too.

You need to try cowgirl position, I've had the same problem until l tried cowgirl. Doggy style would be good too.
Paula

As a dude, l have no idea how to answer ur question, but l thought this might help.it is from Godfather pt ''deux'':

Michael Corleone: l saw a strange thing today. Some rebels were being arrested. One of them pulled the pin on a grenade. He took himself & the captain of the command with him. Now, soldiers r paid to fight; the rebels aren't.
Hyman Roth: What does that tell you?
Michael Corleone: It means they could win.
Michael Corleone: Hyman Roth has been dying from the same heart attack for the last twenty years.

C'mon.it was funny! See, l made u smile!

It took me 8 times until l finally enjoyed sex. But a way that l heard that helps is to have him pull you to the edge of the bed and bite your ear as he enters. This is suppose to help distract you from the pain as he breaks your hymen! Kudos to you for holding onto your virginity that long girl!!!

Dear girl,
1 / 20 girls have such a loose hymen that it does not break at all. It just goes in & out in the sex action, & breaks only while giving birth.
On the other end, 1/20 girls have such rigid hymens that it is almost impossible to break through. It can be done very painfully during sex, or the other solution is to go to a gynecologist or midwife who will make the break with no pain.
The girls who bleed the first time with little pain r the rest: 18/20
Pay a visit to a gynecologist who will examine u & make the break & also advise some birth control methods.
Good luck & happy moments.

took me at least 3-4 times until l fully enjoyed sex
the first time l had sex l like cryed so much , it hurt alot
i actully bled for 2 days after the first time having sex
second time was almost the same same for me
but all l did was l said ok, relax & take it easy so he just went reallly slow
then l eventually said ok just do it l want to get this pain over with so he did break it for me & the 3-4th time l had sex it was amazinggg
lol it just takes some girls longer

Depending on how much pain u r experiencing, u may have one of several conditions. Or u may just need to go more slowly & use more lube. The only way to tell would be with an exam from a gynecologist.

Some of the problem conditions could be:
1- a microperforate hymen (a hymen with only a teeny-tiny hole in it that cannot easily be stretched to accommodate an insertion. Happens to 2-3% of women.)
2- a septate hymen (a hymen with an extra ''bridge'' of tissue blocking the opening & preventing penetration.)
3- an inelastic or rigid hymen (wo not stretch to allow penetration.)
4- a really thick hymen (one that is too thick to break.)

All of these can be fixed by a quick outpatient procedure called a hymenecotomy that ur gynecologist can preform.