Okay, so I am 13(in less than a month I am going to be 14) and this guy and l like each other and hang out sometimes. l think he is going to ask me out soon. But I am just wondering like how far in your opinion it is ok to go when you're 14. Like make out, or up the shirt, or what?? Sorry l know this is a little bit of a weird question. l just wanna know people is opinion is on this.

it isnt what we think, its what you feel. what your comfortable with is what you should do-not what HE wants, what YOU want. l would say making out is fine, maybe up the shirt, but take your time and dont jump in too quickly. have fun but be safe doing so!

Honestly at your age l would not go ''too far.'' You are young and do not have much experience. l would take it slow good luck!

Well i'm 14 and i've made out with guys since l was 13. Really you should go as far as you feel comfortable, but you should probably wait until you know the guy well enough. Oh, and do not go too far, you might regret it. ^^

In my opinion you are too young to experience this kind of encounters, specially if you are not sure if this guy will be asking you out. Things could lead you to another things and from there you can accidentally become pregnant. Im a mother of two and its a big responsibility, specially at your age. l think you should enjoy you age and hold back a little bit on those thoughts you are having. You're too young enjoy life.

At ur age it is better for u in the long run to just be friends for now & not make out. You should share with him that u think he is very special & that he is #1 with you. You should also share the plans & dreams u have for the future - college, career, & family. You can also be thinking & talking about what u need to do to become the person u want to be.

It is not too early for u to be thinking of the family & home u want to have. Early planning can help u achieve ur dream. Just be very realistic about what u have to do to become all u can be. That will probably mean going on to college or training after high school for both u & ur future husband.

Will u also want to save so that u can own a home? Where will u want to live. It is easy to get so into the physical relationship u desire that u forget to plan for ur real future & this can cause u to torpedo ur real future happiness & that of ur family. Take responsibility starting right now to plan ahead & make ur dreams come true for both u & ur beloved.

to be honest. its completly up to you.
at your age you can legaly do anything up to intercourse.
dont go any farther than what YOU want to.
im not saying your boyfriend will. but DO NOT let him pressure you into doing anything you dont want to.
good luck.

YOUR TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND AT LEAST WAIT TILL YOUR 16 BC THESE BOYS OUT HERE ARE ONLY AFTER ONE THING AND THATS SEX SO IM 24 AND WHEN l WAS THAT AGE l WENT THREW IT SO PLEASE LISTEN TO MY ADVICE U DONT WANT TO BE 14 AND PREGANT AND NOW A DAYS THE BOY WILL LEAVE YOU HIGH AND DRY

dont let him do whatever he wants, trust me. all they think about is sex sex sex, im 14 and iv been through this shit and now im single for a whole year, and it feels great! listen, its up to you how far you want to go but be careful l think we're too young for sex AGAIN its up to you =] watch out for rumors. u kiss him, next day the whole school knows. dont trust boys. hope this helped xx

l think that you have to do what you feel the most comfortable doing. Do not let him pressure you into doing anything you do not want to do. Please do not do anything that you will regret later in life. There is nothing wrong with waiting do to those kind of things. All l did at your age was kissing. You have to be the one that makes this decision though. Just please be smart. You do not want to be a teenage mother.

only let him do what you fill ok with. if you want him to go up your shirt you let him.

Go down on him on your first date.



Okay, seriously? If you have to resort to asking strangers on the internet what is okay, maybe you're too young to be dating. Just something to think about.

Oh wait, a REAL answer? Think about what you'd be comfortable doing, and do not let it get HALF that far.



When you've got a 13-year-old daughter, are you going to want some guy to put his hand up her shirt?

Girl you need to stop and think do l really want to give it away free. stay a virgin until your 19 and then sell your virginty on ebay just like is doing right now shes going to get over 3 million and its still going up.... money for colledge buy a new car parents and you a house your virginity is a gold mine just dont give it away get something for it...