But l dont have the pill and l cant ask my mom. Who can l go to to get them? How much will they cost? Planned Parenthood? If l cant go there cause l can not drive what can l do?

If you can not drive, can not get to Planned Parenthood by public transportation or some other way, can not talk to your mom or your doctor, l am going to say you are too young to have sex and should not need the birth control.
Do not do anything that will permanently change your life,

If your in the UK then you can book your doctors for free and get them for free.

or you could always pop down to a store and buy some condoms, they cost about £8 for 12

it sounds as though u may be a little too young to be having sex it is not as wonderful as it id on the movies. But if u r going to be having sex then please get on birth control. If there is no way u can talk to ur mom then take a bus to planned parenthood. A pack of pills from there usually costs about 23.00, the consultation is another 40.00, & if u go in for a pap then l believe that it is another 100.00.

No matter what u decide please be careful, u only have one body adn it needs to be taken care of.

birth control is no joke it causes too many side affects like weight gain hair loss maybe even for some pimples its a drug the FDA put on the market to destroy the females reprouctive organs good luck with trying how old are you anyway?

Remember this. birth control pills r NOT 100 percent effective. You could still get pregnant. Anytime u have sex - there is a chance that u will get pregnant. So - if there is a chance that u can get pregnant - both u & ur partner should discuss & decide WHAT u will do if u get pregnant. You will have three choices.

1) Have the baby & raise it.
2) Give the baby away
3) Kill the baby

If u do not feel comfortable talking about these choices with u partner - then u r not mature enough to be having sex. And - if none of those choices appeal to u & ur partner - then u r not mature enough to be having sex.

That said - u can probably get pills at the health clinic - or planned parenthood for nothing - or close to nothing. Can u have a friend take you? What about the boy who wants to have sex with you? If he is taking some responsibility here - then HE should take u to the clinic. Look online for the planned parenthood clinic & make an appointment.

My thought is that if u have to ask these questions - that u r not really ready to have sex. Your parents r trying to control u for a reason.

There is a great book called ''Virgin Sex for Girls'' - & if u can get it - & read it - l am sure it will help u to know whether or not having sex at this time in ur life is a good thing for u to be doing.

Good luck!

If you cannot talk to your mom then you clearly are not old enough / mature enough to be sexually involved.

If u go to planned parenthood & tell them that u r a student & can not really afford to pay for the pills at full price they will give u sample packs at $10 a peice. They will talk to u for a few minutes & give u a 3 months supply of birth control pills, (for me they gave me Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo), & then they will tell u to come back in 3 months at the end of the trial period for a pap smear. If everything comes back good they will give u more pills at $10 a piece. You do not need a perscription to pick up anything at a drug store, u would just need to continue going to the planned parenthood to pick up & pay for the pills.

if u can not get anywhere b/c u can not drive, chances r you're too young to be having sex period. Do not hide this from ur mother. You do not want to wind up getting in trouble & having issues as a young girl.